Creating Christmas Traditions with Kids: 

Christmas has always been a cherished time for my family, filled with joy, togetherness, and a hint of chaos. Growing up, we spent most of our Christmas season at my grandparents —Momsie and Popsie—surrounded by extended family. But as Evan and I got married and started growing our own family, it became clear that we needed to adapt. We wanted to honor old traditions while carving out space for our own. Over time, we established a balance: Christmas Eve was spent with my family, and Christmas Day with Evan’s.

As the Westover families grew we decided to split off and Christmas Eve became “The Randall Christmas Eve”. It is is all about enjoying lots of appetizers. We skip a big meal and instead have a table full of snacks like dips, meatballs, and finger foods. Everyone brings something, so there’s always plenty to eat. The food makes the night feel festive and keeps us going through all the games, singing, and gift exchanges.

We play games, exchange gifts, sing carols, and end the night watching the Nativity story together.

One memorable tradition was the infamous dice game. Each adult brought a gift—usually a mix of quirky gag gifts or junk treasures. Sitting in a circle, we’d roll dice, and anyone rolling a six could pick a gift. Once all the gifts were unwrapped, a two-minute frenzy of stealing the most coveted items ensued. The laughs and the occasional dramatic reactions made the game an annual highlight.

We also love experimenting with new games and ideas. One year, we introduced a mixed drink bar. Oscar and Carter took turns as bartenders for a few years, crafting creative mocktails for everyone. Eventually, Colby and Nolan took over, keeping the tradition alive.

A special part of the evening was Santa’s visit. My dad, Nick, and Evan took turns playing Santa. One year, Carter wanted to be Santa so Carter dressed as Santa, and Oscar played the Grinch. The Grinch hilariously “stole” presents from Santa, prompting Santa to “fight back.” The kids were in hysterics and couldn’t wait to see what antics would unfold the following year.

After the festivities, we’d head home, making our customary stop at Jack in the Box for tacos and Dr. Pepper. Once home, we’d take a family photo in our Christmas pajamas before settling in for the night.

Our kids were never early risers, so mornings were surprisingly calm. Evan’s parents, Rich and Carol, would come over to watch the kids open presents. The kids always had to wait for them to arrive before diving in, a true test of patience!

Breakfast was a big deal, too. I loved switching up the menu each year, from traditional eggs and bacon to more elaborate options like corned beef hash or homemade cinnamon rolls. This hearty meal held us over until dinner and became one of my favorite parts of the day.

Later in the day, we’d head to Rich and Carol’s house for dinner and more gifts. Over the years, we enjoyed a delicious prime rib. Later on we switched to chicken and dumplings. Dessert was always a treat, with cheesecake being a family favorite.

When the kids were younger, we’d cap the evening with a cozy fire, a movie, and dessert. These days, we gather around the fire for a competitive game of Tripoley, which brings out everyone’s playful spirit.

Looking back, I’m grateful for the balance we found between old traditions and new ones. Christmas in our family isn’t about perfection; it’s about laughter, love, and making memories. From wrapping gifts late into the night while Evan dozed off on the couch, to the kids’ excitement over one present from Santa, every detail adds to the magic.

As the years go by, our traditions may continue to evolve, but the heart of Christmas, family, joy, and togethernessz remains constant. Whether it’s gathering around the table for breakfast, playing games, or laughing at the Grinch and Santa’s antics, these moments create a legacy of love and connection that I hope my children will carry on.